Sunday, June 28, 2009

so we make it up as we go along

i just wanted to say that
this past week has really been amazing
for me, at least
really unforgettable for all the right reason

yep, same here

dun copy me leh

it's true wat
haha

lai yi dian xin xian de bah
like
"i need you as much as i need oxygen"
hahaaa

well, yea, just keep things like that in the future..take things one step at a time and lead our lives as we normally would
cos seems like our lifestyle / life quite pei4

u think so? how so

well, at least judging from the past week la. ive not had to go out of my way to accomodate u..seems like things just fitted nicely into place
not sure if it's becos u';ve been giving in la


haha cos our schedule's are relatively free right
but i agree in the sense that being a coule
is mostly about the mundane activities
e.g. buying furniture, fixing internet

anw the future is uncertain so theres no point thinking or worrying..wat was good in the past wk was made possible by the attitude and understanding so im sure these would still be relevant when our schedules' more bz

duh
i am HOW understanding
and u are HOW more understanding

it just boils down to TTLCC!

INDEED
that's our relationship mission statement
"To create a harmonious, productive, and loving relationship through the judicious exercise of tolerance, trust, love, communication, and commitment"
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in his "greatness guide," sharma encourages us to "make time to think" -- "there's nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all."

hopefully, that's what this blog will be about. for me and only me. more or less.

does fidelity extend beyond death? does the vow "till death do us part" make sense? assuming there is an afterlife, and as christians we believe there is, then death is but a comma, not a fullstop. so you shouldn't just promise to love a person till he/she dies, but rather for as long as both souls continue to exist.

anyway, i think that it's impossible to stop loving someone. it's merely possible to forget that you loved someone, or even worse, forget how to love that someone.

saying this in the context that it's easy to forget the dead, but that doesn't mean we should stop honoring them. to a certain extent the Chinese got it right -- we should ensure that our 'ancestors' live on through us.

of course, by that, i just mean my mother.